The majority of men would prefer to be dating younger women. The reality is, as men, we’re hard-wired to want to hook up with attractive younger women — and younger women are indeed hard-wired to prefer relationships with older guys.Most guys, however, are clueless about the actual process of how to meet and how to date younger women. The predicament for most guys is that once they get to a certain age, they start to imagine they’re simply too old, or not “cool” enough, to flirt with younger women and seduce them.So let me share some tips with you about using body language to flirt, since this is extremely important when you are trying to build a sexual connection with a younger woman. Usually, a successful seduction begins with eye contact. Making eye contact with her, and smiling, is one of the surest ways to display confidence and establish a connection.”The eyes are the window to the soul,” as they say, and this type of contact can be as influential as touch. Then, as the conversation begins and you keep it flowing in the right direction, you’ve got to begin escalating in a physical sense.In essence, this means you touch her and use flirtatious body language. None of this touching is going to happen in an aggressive way; in fact, when you do it right, she won’t even consciously notice that you’re touching her.But on a deeper subsconsious level, she will start to feel physically comfortable with you and your touch. Picture the following scenario, which just about every dude has experienced: You take a girl out on a date, and you have a pleasant time with her. It seems to be going fine. But in the back of your mind, you’re wondering about how tonight is going to end.When you drop her off at her house..or when you walk her out to her car…are you going to attempt to kiss her? Of course, you WANT that first kiss, but you might be nervous that she will reject it…what if she’s not ready for a kiss yet? What if she thinks you’re moving “too fast?”This is why in most cases, the date simply concludes with a friendly handshake, or hug, or a quick kiss on the cheek — and nothing more.Or about this scenario? You take a girl to the movies, and when you sit down, you want to put your arm around her… or snuggle up close to her…but you don’t want her to feel weird or uncomfortable. So for the next two hours, you don’t touch her… and the whole time, you are wishing that you could be.Look, the easiest way to get past these barriers is to simply lay a “foundation” of subtle body contact.Every time you use the power of touch with a woman in the right way, it’s a slow, natural progression — and remember, you have to initiate it.She’ll feel “ready” to hold hands with her…give you the first kiss…and ultimately sleep with you…if you slowly ESCALATE and build body contact in a subtle way. Basically, you want her to feel comfortable with your touch. In a sense, you’re using body language flirting to “warm her up”…Now how do you accomplish this, exactly? Here are few body language flirting tips…How To Date Younger Women, Tip #1: When you’re talking to her, when she says something funny, or something that you really agree with, give her a “high-five.” Don’t slap her hand (like you would do with your buddies). Put your hand up, she puts her hand up, and then you gently clasp her hand — intertwine your fingers with hers — and hold it for a couple of seconds before letting go.It should feel completely natural — consciously, she shouldn’t even notice that you just made physical contact.Likewise, when you want to emphasize something you are telling her, you can reach over and place your hand on her forearm, or on her hand, for a few seconds. This is just going to be a light touch. Then, slowly move your hand away.How To Date Younger Women, Tip #2: Instead of touching her hand, if you’re sitting down with her you can touch her knee for a moment. While you do this, maintain eye contact with her. Again, she won’t be THINKING about the fact that you are touching her knee, but her brain is registering it…and she is feeling at ease with it.How To Date Younger Women, Tip #3: When you are holding open the door for her, you simply place your hand on the small of her back (gently) and subtly guide her through the door.Her brain will pick up this signal: that you’re a strong, masculine presence who is there to provide safety and security. In other words, she senses that she is with a MAN. You’re not a nervous, harmless “nice guy” who avoids physical contact.You can increase the frequency and duration of your touches as the conversation continue to flow. Your touches will grow more intimate and powerful.Touch her hand and forearm a few times in the initital fifteen minutes, and after 30 minutes, it won’t feel unnatural to hold her hand while you talk to her… It won’t feel unnatural for you to reach over and gently brush the hair away from her eyes, and put it behind her ear…And it won’t feel unnatural for you to lean in very close and whisper in her ear when you have something “private” to tell her. This can really give a girl goose bumps… in a good way;)This is all laying the foundation for you to kiss her. After I’ve done all the steps above, I like to give her a soft kiss on the cheek after I’ve just said something in her ear.After I do this, I withdraw my touch and return to whatever we were talking about. The “kiss” is no big deal. It feels like part of a natural, comfortable progression.This is the essence of using body language and touch to build a sexual connection with a younger woman. Ultimately, you’re going to make her feel comfortable being with you in every sense…but only if you lay this foundation.Now, while this subtle body contact is occurring, the other valuable tactic is to use “Strategic Conversation” to drive up her interest and attraction…

Get the complete Sex Dating course on our blog!I consider the stage when I hated going to the dance clubs. The loud music made it difficult to talk and let’s agree, talking is cruicial when you need to get laid! Body language and other secrets do play an important role, but it’s always those magical words that girls require to hear that will convince them they must have you!I don’t fully agree with the subject matter entirely, but it’s recorded here for your viewing pleasure. I also had a hand in writing some of said subject material – just a bit. The greater part of this text was penned by Professor X, the self-styled Master of women. Don’t crticize me, I’m not the manipulative one!!!Here they are in all their glory, posted for you! Professor X, the Professor of Sex spills the beans on his methods on meeting women and attracting girls:INTROIt was Saturday evening, and I had just finished working. I wascreating myself a nice supper and pondered : “Whatshould I do tonight.. No wait.. Who should I do tonight?”. Ireached for my mobile phone and went through the list of phonenumbers I had been hoarding in the last couple of years.”Too boring..” I thought to myself. I paused for a few minutes, contemplating what I valued in women other than sex. Sex was too easy. Then, with a revided sense of hope, Irecalled having always craved to encounter a clever girl. Someone that I could have something different with, so I decided to go out and find her. I think I’m all set. I smell great, I’m clean shaven, hair is perfect, shoes are shined. I’m dressed sensuous, as well as quick-witted, as that is who I want to attract. Oh, one last thingbefore I go.. I qigong breathing to still my mind and attain a positive attitude. Walking out the door, I stop for a moment and look at myself in the mirror. “I love you man!”, I tell myself. “I will be the alpha male tonight!”I walk into the bar, confident and cool. I grab a drink and there she is; exactly how I want her. I watch her from a distance to make my move, then accidentally bump into her saying with a slight grin: “HEY! You almost spilled my drink!”. I walk away, leaving her thinking of me, the mysterious guy thatDIDN’T throw himself at her. Hot chicks are used to being hit on every day. Try not to compliment them right away. Now to continue my plan. I catch her staring at me, so I immediately go up to her and say “If you’re still worried about knocking my drink over, don’t sweat it.” She replies exactly what I had planned : “Sorry, I didn’t mean to do that.” Perfect. She’s apologizing to ME. She’s in a submissive position and open to further approaches. I quickly notice her hands on her hips, so I do the same.Why? Because it makes her feel secure. If she’s sitting with her elbows on the table, put your elbows on the table. If she has her arms crossed, then you must cross your arms. When you mirror someone like this, you are making them feel more comfortable and at ease, without them even knowing it. It has been shown that couples who are extremely close to each other or who are in love mimic each other without even knowing it. Both parties seem to just flow together without doing on purpose. When you mirror a woman, you are seducing. You are making a metaphysical link, making her feel more connected and attracted to you.Now we’re having a wonderful chat, she’s leaning in, playing with her hair and giggling constantly. This fish is on the hook, so here’s my cue: “Are you going to have another drink before we go home?”. I woke up the next morning happy and refreshed. I rolled over and looked at her, thinking to myself : “Wow. Our conversations were great, and the sex was even better! This is one girl I think I’ll hang on to!”.

According to popular literature, ‘The Law of Attraction’ can help you get ANYTHING you desire. This includes the woman of your dreams! From what many “experts” have said, if you simply wish for (and imagine) your ideal mate, she’ll magically appear.But can this really be done? Well that’s a pretty important question to ask.The other day I was reading the popular book “The Secret”. While I think this book contains a lot of useless information, there are a few principles listed which can help your dating life. What the author discussed was how The Law of Attraction can help achieve you want out of life, including meet your dream woman.Now if you’re not familiar with The Law of Attraction, then let me to provide the text book definition: Basically it stats that a person’s thoughts (conscious and unconscious), emotions, beliefs and actions are said to attract corresponding positive and negative experiences “through the resonance of their energetic vibration.” In other words it means that if you believe in attraction you can get what you think about. Ultimately your thoughts determine your outcome.Furthermore you can implement The Law of Attraction by following these 4 rules:1) Know what you desire and ask the universe for it. (The “universe” is mentioned broadly, stating that it can be anything from God to an unknown source of energy.)2) Focus your thoughts upon the thing desired with great feeling such as enthusiasm or gratitude.3) Feel and behave as if the object of your desire is on its way.4) Be open to receiving it.Now the question is how can you apply The Law of Attraction to your own dating life? Well it’s simple. All you have to change around the basic tenants and make them apply to your own dating life.So if you take the above 4 rules, your own personal Law of Dating Attraction would look like this:1) Formulate your idea of your perfect woman2) Think about this perfect woman and describe her perfectly3) Use visualization to see yourself meeting her, attracting her and ultimately seducing her4) Go to specific places and look for opportunities where you can meet herWhile I personally believe The Law of Attraction doesn’t work in the real world, it’s important to clearly identify your ideal woman. If you can create a perfect image of what she’s like and her personality, then you’ll discover it’s actually pretty easy to meet her.So if you’re having trouble finding your dream woman, then I recommend that you follow this simple exercise. You might be surprised and meet her!

She’s been the primary reason you’re spending a lot of sleepless night and she just can’t leave your head no matter what you do. The thing is you’re in love with your best friend and you absolutely have no idea what to do about it – purely, it’s never really an issue if you’re attracted to your best friend – being in love is supposed to be not something you should miserable about. Getting her to like you will absolutely be the number one step into actually being a potential lover – and be a little sensitive about her body language as well. Below are a few tips on how to tell if your best friend likes you too and get to decode her signs she desires you as well!

Checks up on you all the time. It’s a sign that she misses you and thinks about you a lot. Never be available most of the time. Update each other about your whereabouts – I know it’s cheesy but it’s a necessary evil if you want her to develop deep feelings for you too.

Wants to hangout always. Seeing you all the time makes her feel good and absolutely in a light mood that’s why don’t start wondering why she would like to hangout with you all the time. Hanging out may be something totally innocent for you but girls want to be surrounded by things that make them happy – and you’re one of them.

Sends you something nice. When a girl sends you something nice and there’s no occasion, she’s definitely trying to make you realize something – and it’s more than a friend thing. When things get pretty personal with her, she would do her best to make get you to notice even her smallest gestures – and giving you a present surely does make her happy.

Flirts and teases you a lot. When she’s always in a hyper and playful mood when you’re around, there’s a great possibility she’s already attracted to you. Having you around makes her happier and lighter – we can’t emphasize on that more.

Takes time to be sweet. She asks you how you are and shows concern when you’re down – she is simply trying to be a sweet friend and hopes that you start to see her as more than that. When a girl gets romantic with you, get your hopes high – she’s absolutely so into you by now.

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You see a lot of articles about what men can do during sex to make it better for the woman, but there’s a lot less information – and opinion – on the mistakes women make. So, to set the record straight, here’s our list of ten things for women to avoid.
1 Expecting him to think like a woman
We’ve all seen loads of books with titles like “Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus” which highlight an unfortunate difference between the sexes. Men and women don’t think the same way – and while we’re not going to get into why this happens, it’s important to remember that fact when you’re in a relationship. In general, men are not as romantic as women, they don’t see romance as a necessary prelude to sex, and they can divorce sex from their feelings in a way that perhaps most women can’t. So there will be plenty of times when a man wants sex even if he isn’t feeling romantic and connected to his partner.
For him, the physical pleasure of sex is a reward in itself. He doesn’t need to be seduced into feeling desire (though he may appreciate it if you do seduce him!), at least most of the time, for his sex drive is a pretty constant part of his maleness. I think that’s what women don’t understand.
They know how elusive and emotional their own sex drive is, but they don’t appreciate how different it is for a man. Think of it this way: men can enjoy sex with their partner whether they are feeling loving or not; in fact they often find their feelings of love for their partner when they have sex with her. By contrast, women often say they need to feel loving before they want sex – or at least before they are prepared to give themselves heart and soul to a man.
2 Not showing your sexual energy
Women who were brought up to be demure “good girls” (i.e. non-sexual) may find it difficult to express the essence of their feminine energy during sex. And a lot of women also have problems expressing their anger, an emotion which can add real spice to the sexual union between men and women. This lack of sexual energy might appear as a reluctance to initiate sex, a reluctance to be the active partner, a reluctance to make noises or thrust, or simply an overall tendency to wait for the man to lead and direct what happens during sex.
But believe me, ladies, your man will really like it when you express your passion – whether that means you getting on top for woman on top sex, moving in a way that will give you the greatest pleasure, kissing him passionately, or being assertive about what you want in bed.
3 Being too gentle when you touch his penis
Men like a firmer touch than women, especially when it comes to their penises. If you ever have the pleasure of watching him masturbate, you’ll see how much pressure he uses on his penis – especially as he nears orgasm. If you’re doing it for him, ask him to tell you what you’re doing right and what he’d like done differently. He’ll really appreciate your efforts to give him more pleasure.
4 Not experimenting with sex
The saying has it that men think about sex ten times an hour – or is it a hundred? Yes, of course that’s an exaggeration, but it isn’t much of one. While some women have a high sexual desire, it’s true to say that women in general are much less sexy than men when they’re not in the bedroom. Men fantasize all the time – about the things they see, what they’d like to do, how they’d like to do it, and so on. With such an active sexual imagination, it’s not hard to understand why a bit of variation in the bedroom routine can keep a man sexually happy.
It doesn’t have to be way out stuff like bondage, either. For example, try changing sex positions once in a while: take the initiative and get on top of him or let him enjoy rear entry for a change. Talk dirty to him if you’ve never tried that before; explore and play with new parts of his body, such as his anus and perineum, during foreplay – or even during the main event. Seduce him into a “quickie” by leaving a trail of clothes across the floor into the bedroom. Greet him at the door in sexy clothing. Phone him at work and tell him what you’d like to do to him later that day…..well, you get the idea – use your imagination!
5 Expecting him to read your mind
Yes, we know it’s difficult to express your sexual desires directly. But men don’t think like women. They don’t read clues, they don’t get hints. So stop communicating indirectly, and tell him what you want. And give him feedback when you get it! That way, he’ll know exactly what he’s supposed to be doing, how you feel about it, and whether to do it again. For example, if you like what he’s doing during sex, let him know with your moans of pleasure.
6 Criticizing him
I think one of the reasons women can be so critical of their man is that they’ve never learned the art of direct communication. Than means stating clearly and directly what you want, how you want it, and whether you got it – and how you feel about it afterwards. Men appreciate that style of talk – they know where they stand and it removes the uncertainty for them.
Criticism is an indirect way of saying that your needs are not being met – but if you read number 5 above, then maybe you’ve begun to understand that your man won’t know what you want unless you tell him. If you’re judging his love for you on the basis of his ability to anticipate and meet your needs without you saying what they are, well, I’m afraid you aren’t likely to be very satisfied. And it won’t be his fault.
7 Letting him take responsibility for your orgasm
A lot of us think that a man somehow has a responsibility to “give” a woman an orgasm during sex. After all, that’s how a lot of us were brought up – that a man somehow has to look after “his” woman. And that idea extends to making sure she has an orgasm during sex…..but the truth is that women are responsible for their own orgasms. So while it might be nice for your man to help you get there, if you don’t make it to orgasm through his efforts, you can always take matters into your own hands.
8 Controlling him by withdrawing sex
One of the most unhealthy things you can do in a relationship is to use sex as a weapon. This is basically a statement that you feel powerless, that you think withholding sex is the only way you can get what you want. Rather than trying to exert some influence over your man by denying him the pleasure of your body, try communicating directly what you want and don’t want. (That might even extend to simply saying you don’t feel emotionally close enough to your partner to want sex.)
9 Thinking he’ll feel the same way about your body that you do
It just isn’t so. Men don’t attach the judgments to women’s bodies that women do. So, for example, even if he thinks your butt really is a bit on the large side, it won’t matter to him the way it matters to you. In fact, he probably quite likes it. And he certainly won’t be put off making love, or want the lights off, because of it. While you waste time and emotional energy wondering if you’re completely undesirable because of some aspect of your body, he’ll never give it a second thought. It’s women who judge their bodies, I think for the sake of comparison with other women, not men.
10 Not making up with sex after an argument
Well, yes, I know that a lot of couples do make up with sex when they’ve had an argument, but in fact many more don’t. As I said above, most women think that they need to be feeling loving and emotionally close before they want sex. Yet I’ve met a lot of couples in my work as a sexual therapist who have found that taking the risk and jumping into bed can work really well as a way of getting close again.
Even if you don’t feel sexy or loving when you start making love, after a while the simple act of being physically connected in bed can really change the way you feel about each other. The other way of settling an argument (that’s talking, seeking understanding, and thrashing out how you feel) is fine: but once in a while try a more direct method of getting your feelings back on track – just go to bed together!
Rod Phillips